2 years later I'm still thinking what have I done wrong
October 2016
When I found out I was pregnant I was over the moon but scary. After 11 weeks I found spotting I wasn't gonna take any chances.
After 5 mins in the waiting room I went for a scan I could tell the look on her face it wasn't good news all I can think of what the nurse said "I'm really sorry Chloe I can't find a heart beat.
I was just led of the bed feeling numb I didn't speak I told my mum and we left.
The nurse said nature will take it cause.
2 years later I'm still thinking what I have done wrong.
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